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Remembering September 11. A Quarter Century Ago.

Today is September 11, 2026. A date anyone who lived through it will never forget, a date to the yet unborn must always be taught.

On September 11, 2001, it was a remarkably beautiful late summer day, the sky uncommonly blue with nary a cloud. I was a mother of two with only one thought on my mind; today was my first child’s day of preschool. I excitedly got little Steven ready, no radio or TV on, when my Mom called me.

“Is your TV on?”

“No, why?”

“Planes have hit the World Trade Center.”

“Planes hit what??”

Steven’s radar ears perked up. “What plane, Mommy?”

I made a quick fib to him and moved to a different room. ‘Nana’s watching a movie, just eat your breakfast.”

I went to my bedroom and Mom explained the whole thing. It was so bizarre. So unreal. Reality crashed into our little world. I was in shock, but I had to keep going. I told Mom I’d see her shortly, as her home was down the street from the preschool. I packed up Steve and baby Matt.

When I dropped Steve off, it was so unlike what I expected from what I thought the first day of preschool would be. The kids were scheduled for only an hour as an orientation, and all the attendants were quietly smiling and nodding, taking care not to acknowledge the reality outside this little bubble. I hugged my son probably a little longer than usual, then left to see my Mom.

When I got there, I saw the first images of the event; looping footage of planes hitting both towers, then the famous second tower with its giant antenna collapsing into itself, in clouds of toxic smoke. I couldn’t even imagine the chaos of the moment for all of Manhattan’s people. A video surfaced of a woman who was called into a bodega just seconds before an ungodly wash of debris flowed across the bodega’s doorway. The woman cried to the owner: “Oh my God, oh my God, you just saved my life, thank you, Thank you!”

Mom and I hugged then talked a bit. I wanted to visit our friend Flo next door, who was born in Lower Manhattan. Poor Flo, she was devastated. “That’s my home town!” she sighed as we watched the endless footage. I wanted to turn the TV off, but Flo always kept hers on. I just held her.

Back at Mom’s, there was tea ready, although I only had about 20 minutes to stay as I had to get Steve. Mom advised me to not tell Steve about it, and knew that would be best. Even when Greg came home from work for lunch, we kept the TV off upstairs. Greg stayed home the rest of the day, and watched coverage in the basement. I only watched a bit when Steve was napping, but it was so devastating it was hard to keep on. The skies became eerily empty for the next few days. Although the expression has become overused, it was a truly a surreal moment in time.

The worst emotional response that resulted from 9/11 was the almost instant racism against anyone who was Muslim or who appeared to be of the Middle East origin. My doctor was a Sikh, and I was concerned for his safety because in this hyper-sensitive new world, his turban might be seen as a threat by anyone not familiar with his faith. (Thankfully he had no problems). Even so, I started to see this conception of “The Other” become more commonplace. This only got worse in the convening years, with a division in America which is now as far from the ideal world of Star Trek we imagined what it could be.

But I still believe there IS Hope. As the best emotional response from the events of 9/11 came from the US and the whole world, with outpourings of compassion and help with great respect for the victims of the flights, their families, and for all those passengers whose planes were diverted away from New York. Strangers opened their homes and hearts. It was a blessed moment… while it lasted. Yes, RESPECT was the key, and yet in time, that Administration chose the wrong target and threw us into war with an enemy not responsible for the terrorism*, which led to even more war, division, and in the last 10 years, abandonment of our Constitutional rights.

In the years in-between, we honored the dead every 9/11, the new tower debuted, and annual solemn memorials were held, as they should be.

But we are still learning to not let fear guide us. There are times when we pine for the world before 9/11, but we must live in the now, and work to truly make peace and respect reality, and the world a safe, caring, verdant world for all our children

Today is another beautiful late summer day with intense blue skies and puffy clouds. We must work for the United States to become respected again as it was in those few truly awful days.

  • And yes, Sadaam Hussein was a tyrant, and I’m very thankful for his downfall, but he was not the cause.

Goodnight Nichelle. Nichelle Nichols – December 28 1932- July 30, 2022

With sadness I report that the magnificent Nichelle Nichols has passed away, she was 89.

I probably cannot add to the hundreds of tributes pouring in around the world as I write this, but I can say, that Nichelle was a singular entertainer, dancer, and trail-blazing inspiration to millions of women of all colors around the world. She was Magic.

I saw Nichelle briefly in 1976 at the Star Trek Bicentennial 10 Convention in NYC. I was 15, and totally entranced by her. She gamely and graciously answered Star Trek question from the hungry fans, even if she had answered them dozens of times already. She loved the fans, and her time on Trek, and she knew that her experience as Lt. Uhura became the key to her amazing post-Trek life. At the end of her talk, she even sung a few bars of “Beyond Antares” in her silky, embracing voice. What a love. I can hear her voice now:

“The skies are green and glowing Where my heart is, where my heart is….”

Today my heart is with Nichelle. Rest in peace and love, dear incredible woman. Your star will shine forever.

To see a great documentary about Nichelle’s remarkable life, be sure to catch “Woman in Motion” now streaming on Paramount Plus. Beautiful and Touching!

And now, some of my favorite pictures of Nichelle ❤

My Weekly Spock: Remembering Leonard

Today, of course is the 4th anniversary of Mr. Nimoy’s passing.  Hard to believe it’s been so long already, but as I grow older, it seems time flies by faster too.

In this regard, although it’s still sad that Leonard passed far too soon for his family and fans worldwide to bear, what remains true forever is not how long his life was, but what he did with it.

One thing I always admired about him was his ambition to be more than just one thing to himself.  He knew he’d always be Spock, but he never stopped being Leonard; a man of ambition, compassion, and endless curiosity.  And that’s something we all can aspire to.   His joy in all his pursuits from photography to writing, to philanthropy and in his ability to be open to all new discoveries in his lifetime was truly never a life wasted.  He had a wonderful life, and never took his time on Earth for granted, especially toward the end.

In this regard, isn’t that what we must all hope for in our own lives?  The expression “Life is short” tends to become truer as we age.   I’m 57 as I write this, (April birthday) and I realize that all I want to accomplish in my life may not come to pass, but that doesn’t mean we stop pursuing our dreams.

In the spirit of Mr. Nimoy’s wonderful, productive life, I wish you all the satisfaction of a life well lived.  May we all live Long and Prosper, and thank you Mr. Nimoy, for being a role model of a life lived with love, passion, and commitment to his abilities and family.  Forever in our hearts ❤

 

 

 

Leonard’s Garden — and Yours.

Mister Nimoy tweeted this lovely, graceful post on Sunday:

I suspect he knows how greatly loved by the world he is, and I think this is his gentle way of reminding his admirers that nothing lasts forever. It may even be his ever-so-subtle way of saying Goodbye, but I don’t want to speculate too far into that 😦

As Pete Seeger  paraphrased Ecclesiastes 3:1 in ‘Turn, Turn, Turn

To everything, there is a season.  And a time to to every purpose under heaven.

Since his COPD diagnosis last year, he has kept to his privacy, but also became more insistent on urging others to quit smoking or never start.  He doesn’t want anyone to go through what he and millions of others have experienced with the disease.  It is another bloom in the garden of his amazing life.  He has achieved so much in his time so far, as an actor, director, photographer, pilot, playwright, poet, animal lover, preserver of Jewish tradition  and civic-minded citizen. Also a loving husband, father, Grandpa, and nurturing soul force of the little show that turned him into an icon.  In many ways, he is Mister Spock in his endless quest to learn and explore, and that is a lesson to us all:  Never stop exploring, learning, creating,  and discovering what you can do with your life.

Our life is short and precious.  I always say that any day that you can get out of bed is a blessed day. Don’t waste another moment on the constant distractions the world throws at us. Unplug from the web. Turn off your I-Phone. Talk to someone face to face. Hug a friend. Make something with your hands.  Plant your garden.  Just LIVE and LOVE, for all we have is RIGHT NOW.

We don’t know anything more at this time, but of course our thoughts and prayers are with Leonard, Susan, Julie, Adam, and all of his family.  We send our grateful thanks for sharing his beautiful garden of life. LLAP.

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